my friends n i had already knew that it's best for my poor friend to just break up with her bf. but we'd nver suggested it to her as we think that it's her right to make a decision. until just now, my friend came to me n told me that she thinks she wants to put an end to her relationship. she said dat she cant stand it anymore. she's been mentally tortured with all dat sh*ts. i didnt encouraged her by straight away saying a yes u should break up. yet, i told her to gain her bf's trust. coz i believe that from trust, she'll get d freedom. it wasnt d first time i asked my friend to say that to her bf. my friend had already told that to her bf but the bf still couldnt tolerate more. he said that he has all d power n my friend is his right. so, my friend has to follow everythng he says. n what makes it worse is that, the bf told my friend that he wont change. this is wht he is. he wants to take control of everythng. n if they are to break up, the bf will have a revenge on my friend n will keep hunting her. my~~!! i cant imagine how will my friend survive if she is to live with tht guy for the rest of her life.
actually i was quite pissed off with my friend because she is not certain with her mind. she's not firm enough. at first she said that she wants to break up. suddenly she said that she cant run away frm her bf as her bf is threatening her to tell &*%$$^&#@%&&*(((^%&(&*** to my friend's family. n suddenly my friend told me that she doesnt want to let her bf live alone n she wants to be by his side no matter what. argggggghhh~~!! that's so ridiculous.
how can u live with someone who is dare to threat u? how can u live with someone who doesnt even respect ur right n freedom? how can u live with someone who cannot tolerate n doesnt want to listen to wht u want? do u think dat u can live ur life happily if these are wht u have 2 face?
loving someone is not to have revenge on his/her after d relationship is ended. even the other party has ruined our life n has stabbed our heart to death, yet, d fact dat we love him/her will not make us hate him/her. even we cant be with him/her, we can still pray for his/her best of blast. n about the love matter, u have d right either to keep the love or let it fade away.
wake up. i knw it's tough for u to move on alone after this. but i've faced it. it's not that bad to be single. as time goes by u'll understand it n knw wht's d best for u. we still hve time to reflect on d past n build d future. it doesnt matter if d future has no figure of a guy. we women can still live on our own. as long as we bring our mind together with us in anythng we do.
think it this way..to love someone is not only by saying "i love u" every day n night. but it's the matter of how u tolerate between one another, how u trust each other n how u respect other's right n mind. b mature. long distance rltnshp wont work if u dont believe in ur bf/gf. loyalty n honesty are wasted if u dont trust each other. gain d trust n freedom will come. =)